Why are all of my relationships toxic?

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Why are all of my relationships toxic?

Red Flags, Dating, and Looking Inward

Do you have that one friend that’s always in a toxic relationship? Is that friend you? This episode is all about red flags, unhealthy dynamics, and some serious introspection.

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Today’s questions

  • Are there predictors for ending up in an unhealthy relationship, such as childhood trauma/certain types of attachment wounds, or can anyone end up in an unhealthy relationship?

  • What are common behavior patterns that show up for people who have been in emotionally abusive relationships?

  • How do you identify and distinguish between a genuine red flag vs. a personal preference?

  • How do you talk about previous relationships and/or insecurities with a new partner?

  • How do you empathize with your partner while still honoring your needs?

  • How can you work through and heal from your own red flags?

Our guests

Dr. Carli Blau

Dr. Blau is a LCSW Psychotherapist with a Ph.D. in Clinical Sex Therapy and a focus on women's health Issues.

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Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick

Dr. Liz is a licensed therapist and relationship coach. She is also host of the "Relatable: Relationships Unfiltered" podcast.

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