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Asking the right questions can change everything.

Are you ready to go there? Are you ready to go there?

Curiosity isn’t just a personality trait. It’s a practice.

Your new Relationship Ritual Your new Relationship Ritual
allow yourself to feel seen

Your skincare deserves a routine, why not your relationship?

300 questions to help you understand yourself, and each other, more honestly. When you want to go beyond date night. The Couples Deck turns curiosity and connection into a ritual.
Asking for Myself Couples Edition
Regular price
$30.00
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$30.00
Regular price
Asking for Myself Couples Edition
Regular price
$30.00
Sale price
$30.00
Regular price
Asking for Myself Couples Edition
Regular price
$30.00
Sale price
$30.00
Regular price

Inspiring real conversations

Surface level isn't just boring, it's holding you back.

Building what I needed

After a decade in the intimate wellness space (and a lifetime of shyness, unhealthy relationships, people pleasing, and codependency 👀), I set out to create tangible tools to help you bring your full self to your relationships, feel empowered to take up space, and have the courage to start really going there.

My Story
Why Asking for Myself exists

What is your fear of vulnerability costing you?

Most of us were never taught how to talk about our feelings (if we were even allowed to express those feelings in the first place).


So, we learn to avoid the hard stuff. We make ourselves small. We bend ourselves into who we think we need to be to be loved. We ignore red flags. We "go with the flow." Maybe we don't know who we are, but we decide it doesn't really matter anyway.

Asking for Myself exists to help you get real. To give you language for the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and permission to actually start asking them. When you start showing up authentically, your relationships start to feel more honest and connected. You stop trying to appease, and start feeling the freedom to ask for what you deserve.

Serving Instagram Realness

Follow us on Instagram for daily questions, real conversations, and a peek behind the cards.

We normalize depth, nuance, and curiosity in a culture obsessed with hot takes and shallow platitudes. Join the conversation!