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Here for the conversations you’ve always wanted to have, but never really knew how.

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A card game designed to boost intimacy and understanding with your partner.

Remember the early days of your relationship when you stayed up all night together sharing your life stories, hopes, fears, and dreams? We're bringing that energy back, one question at a time.
Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card DeckAsking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
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Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck

$30.00
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Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card DeckAsking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
My Store

Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck

$30.00
$30.00
Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card DeckAsking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
My Store

Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck

$30.00
$30.00
Krista G

“We've tried other card games, but this one really hit different. The questions go deep, and we ended up talking for hours about things we never thought to bring up. It's our new date night go-to.”

Danielle R

“My partner and I have been together for 5 years and felt like we knew everything there is to know about each other, but these cards have opened up new layers. These really make you think and bring up topics you don't really talk about day-to-day. We feel so much closer every time we play. Highly recommend for anyone wanting to go deep and reignite that spark!”

Maddie J

“I was a little nervous at first, but the game made it easy to start conversations we’d been avoiding. It felt like a safe way to open up. It's like couples therapy in a box, but actually fun!”

Amber K

Those pleasure cards? 🔥🔥🔥

Grab your deck and start asking the questions that matter. Let the real talk begin!

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Founder Story: Where It All Began

Discover how a fascination with human behavior and a background in product design inspired the creation of Asking for Myself.

Learn about our founder, Mia

The Podcast: Real Conversations, Real Experts

Tune in to our podcast for expert advice on love and intimacy, covering topics like codependency, resentment, and desire.

Listen to the Asking for Myself podcast

What People Are Saying: Real Couples, Real Connections

Hear how couples are transforming their relationships with meaningful conversations sparked by the game.

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No rules. Just real, meaningful connection at your own pace.

Step 1

Choose a category: Self, Relationships, Pleasure, or Between Us

Step 2

Draw a question.

Step 3

Answer and let the conversation flow!

Step 1

Choose a category: Self, Relationships, Pleasure, or Between Us

Step 2

Draw a question.

Step 3

Answer and let the conversation flow!

No rules. Just real, meaningful connection at your own pace.

Step 1

Choose a category: Self, Relationships, Pleasure, or Between Us

Step 2

Draw a question.

Step 3

Answer and let the conversation flow!

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FAQ

Asking for...yourself (and we're happy to answer!)
1

Is this game only for couples?

While Asking for Myself is designed with couples in mind, most questions can also be used with friends or family to spark deep and meaningful conversations. That said, you may want to keep the "Between Us" questions between you and your partner... 😉

2

What if we get a question we’re not ready to answer?

No pressure! You can skip any question and come back to it later or choose a new one that feels right for both of you. While some questions are meant to challenge you, it shouldn't make you uncomfortable.

3

How does the podcast connect with the game?

Our podcast dives into topics like communication, intimacy, and relational growth—perfect for building on what you explore in the game. Think of it as your extended guide to deepening your relationship.

4

Can we play more than once?

Absolutely! With 300 questions across 3 key categories, the game offers endless opportunities to connect, reflect, and grow together.

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Expand your understanding of love, intimacy, and communication. Together let's explore what it takes to build stronger, healthier relationships!