Ep 1. Are orgasms necessary for good sex?
Is the "big O" really the end all be all when it comes to sex? How ...



Why Asking for Myself exists
Most of us were never taught how to talk about what we feel
(if we were even allowed to feel in the first place) —
with ourselves or with the people we love.
So we avoid.
We make small talk.
We scroll.
We bend ourselves into who we think we need to be to feel loved.
We ignore red flags.
We tolerate mistreatment because "relationships take work."
We feel deeply disconnected without understanding why.
Asking for Myself exists to make the unapproachable… approachable.
To give you language for the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and permission to "really go there."
To help you explore your inner world before projecting it onto someone else.
To normalize depth, nuance, and curiosity in a culture obsessed with hot takes and shallow platitudes.
After a decade in the intimate wellness space (and a lifetime of shyness, unhealthy relationships, people pleasing, and codependency 👀), I set out to create tangible tools to help you bring your full self to your relationships, feel empowered to take up space, and have the courage to start really going there.
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