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Curiosity isn’t just a personality trait. It’s a practice.

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Your skincare deserves a routine, why not your relationship?

300 questions to help you understand yourself, and each other, more honestly. When you want to go beyond date night. The Couples Deck turns curiosity and connection into a ritual.
Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
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Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
Regular price
$30.00
Sale price
$30.00
Regular price
Asking for Myself: Couples Edition Card Deck
Regular price
$30.00
Sale price
$30.00
Regular price
awareness meets connection

Why Asking for Myself exists

Most of us were never taught how to talk about what we feel
(if we were even allowed to feel in the first place) —
with ourselves or with the people we love.


So we avoid.

We make small talk.

We scroll.

We bend ourselves into who we think we need to be to feel loved.

We ignore red flags.

We tolerate mistreatment because "relationships take work."

We feel deeply disconnected without understanding why.


Asking for Myself exists to make the unapproachable… approachable.


To give you language for the questions you’ve always wanted to ask, and permission to "really go there."

To help you explore your inner world before projecting it onto someone else.

To normalize depth, nuance, and curiosity in a culture obsessed with hot takes and shallow platitudes.

Building what I needed

After a decade in the intimate wellness space (and a lifetime of shyness, unhealthy relationships, people pleasing, and codependency 👀), I set out to create tangible tools to help you bring your full self to your relationships, feel empowered to take up space, and have the courage to start really going there.

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