How do I get comfortable with masturbation?

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How do I get comfortable with masturbation?

Self-pleasure, Shame, and Double Standards

Did you grow up feeling guilty about self-pleasure? In this episode, we dive into the complex relationship between masturbation and shame. Interview guest DB shares her own journey to embracing self-pleasure and discusses practical tips to help you embrace a more positive and empowering mindset towards your own sexuality.

Today’s questions

  • What has your own personal journey with self-pleasure looked like?

  • How can parents talk to their kids about masturbation?

  • How does self-esteem play a role in self-pleasure?

  • What were the results of your Magic Wand masturbation experiment?

  • What masturbation tips do you have for beginners?

  • How can you incorporate self-pleasure in the context of a relationship?

  • How do you take the pressure off of orgasming when it comes to self-pleasure?

  • How can you navigate conversations or boundaries with your partner if they are uncomfortable with masturbation (and/or don’t want you to masturbate)? 

Today's Guest

Danielle Bezalel, MPH

Danielle Bezalel, aka DB, is the Creator, Executive Producer, and Host of Sex Ed with DB. Danielle earned a Master of Public Health with a focus on sexuality and reproductive health from Columbia University.

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