Why are all of my relationships toxic?

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Written By Mia Davis

Red Flags, Dating, and Looking Inward

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Do you have that one friend that’s always in a toxic relationship? Is that friend you? This episode is all about red flags, unhealthy dynamics, and some serious introspection.

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Today’s questions

  • Are there predictors for ending up in an unhealthy relationship, such as childhood trauma/certain types of attachment wounds, or can anyone end up in an unhealthy relationship?

  • What are common behavior patterns that show up for people who have been in emotionally abusive relationships?

  • How do you identify and distinguish between a genuine red flag vs. a personal preference?

  • How do you talk about previous relationships and/or insecurities with a new partner?

  • How do you empathize with your partner while still honoring your needs?

  • How can you work through and heal from your own red flags?

Our guests

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Dr. Carli Blau

Dr. Blau is a LCSW Psychotherapist with a Ph.D. in Clinical Sex Therapy and a focus on women's health Issues.

Follow Dr. Blau: Instagram | TikTok | Website | Boutique Psychotherapy

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Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick

Dr. Liz is a licensed therapist and relationship coach. She is also host of the "Relatable: Relationships Unfiltered" podcast.

Follow Dr. Liz: Instagram | Podcast |YouTube | Website

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Mia Davis

Mia is the founder behind this site! She is also the host of your favorite new podcast, Asking for Myself. She is passionate about empowering people with the information they need (and deserve) to live their best lives. She is also determined to help sexuality and mental health professionals scale their knowledge and reach more people in need. Her background is in product design and she may or may not watch a little too much reality TV. If you’re a Housewives fan, you’ll be sure to get along…

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