How do we talk to men about sexuality and mental health?

Masculinity, Mental Health, and Body Image for Black Men

 

In this episode, I had the great pleasure of being joined by two brilliant, talented, and insightful men. We talked about everything from masculinity to sexuality and stereotypes. This is a conversation about vulnerability and mental health. There’s only so much I can ever know about what it’s like to be a Black man and I am so grateful to have been given a window into Rollins’ and Tyrone’s experiences. Tune in to hear their stories and what we can do as a society to better support men’s mental health!

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This episode’s questions:

  • How does sexual liberation have an impact on mental health? What is the connection between our sexuality and mental health?

  • What aspects of the “male experience” prevent men from receiving help when they need it?

  • Is “toxic masculinity” a constructive or inclusive term to invite men into the conversation?

  • Is there space to hold compassion for incels while holding them accountable?

  • How can we approach male aggression and violence with an empathetic lens?

  • How has the myth of “doing it alone” played a role in your life and your relationship with masculinity?

  • How do we create vulnerable spaces and community for men to talk to each other?

  • How do we build relationships between straight men and queer men? What barriers exist to cultivating these relationships?

  • What body image insecurities have you had to overcome or work through? How has this been impacted by your identity and experience as an athlete/actor?

  • What stereotypes exist for Black men are harmful (or perhaps, advantageous)?

  • How do you prevent burnout while advocating for against oppressive systems that personally harm you (protesting as a Black man)?


Our guests

Rollins Stallworth III

Rollins is a community mental health advocate, public speaker, and early stage tech investor.

Follow Rollins: Instagram | LinkedIn

Tyrone Davis Jr.

Tyrone is a broadway actor, sex coach, and educator whose work emphasizes Black and Queer liberation.

Follow Tyrone: Instagram | Website


Resources

Rollins’ action plan

Suicide resources:

  • Text ‘HELLO’ to 741-741 for the Crisis Text Line or call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for the National Suicide Lifeline.

  • For LGBTQIA+ youth under 25, get 24/7 crisis intervention & suicide prevention lifeline support with The Trevor Project. Text ‘START’ to 678678 or dial (866) 488-7386.

Self-care & mental health resources: 

Express Yourself Black Man

CBT Thought Diary

youfeellikeshit.com

getmoodfit.com

wysa.io


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Mia Davis

Mia is the founder behind this site! She is also the host of your favorite new podcast, Asking for Myself. She is passionate about empowering people with the information they need (and deserve) to live their best lives. She is also determined to help sexuality and mental health professionals scale their knowledge and reach more people in need. Her background is in product design and she may or may not watch a little too much reality TV. If you’re a Housewives fan, you’ll be sure to get along…

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