Sexual Communication, Fantasies, and Cultivating Desire
Talking about sex with your partner can feel impossibly awkward, even when you're having it with them. 😳 In this episode, I chat with world-renowned sexologist Dr. Jessica O'Reilly for a wide-ranging conversation about desire, consent, and how to actually communicate what you want in bed. From fantasies to the G-spot debate to keeping passion alive across distance, this one gets into it.
Today's Questions
- What is consent beyond yes/no, and how does consent lead to more pleasure?
- How do you keep desire alive in a long-distance relationship? Can you bring back that initial spark?
- How do passion and risk play a role in our relationships? Is passion necessary for a relationship to thrive?
- How can you explore a fantasy when your partner isn't interested (e.g. threesomes)?
- How do you open up your relationship when one partner isn't interested?
- What is the line with power dynamic fantasies that cross into harm (e.g. race play)?
- Can a vibrator de-sensitize your clitoris?
- Is the G-Spot real?
- Is everyone capable of squirting? 💦
Our Guest
Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, PhD
World-renowned sexologist, author, and speaker dedicated to helping people improve their relationships and sexual lives.
Featured Products
Awkward Essentials — dripstick — The original after-sex cleanup sponge. Personal solutions for hella personal problems. Shop at awkwardessentials.com.
Honey Play Box — Rupee — Clitoral orgasm-inducing vibrator. Use code TABU for 25% off at honeyplaybox.com.
🎧 Listen to the full episode :
