Vulva Insecurities, Oral Sex, and Orgasm
If you tend to feel more comfortable giving than receiving, you are definitely not alone. In this episode I am joined by sexologist and educator Goody Howard and queer sex therapist Casey Tanner to explore the oral sex gap, why cunnilingus is still so stigmatized, and what it actually takes to get out of your head and into the pleasure you deserve. This conversation is juicy in every sense of the word.
Today's Questions
- How can people overcome vulva insecurities?
- Are vulva insecurities heightened when both partners share the same parts?
- What's up with the oral sex gap? Why is cunnilingus less normalized than other forms of oral sex?
- Can we have a healthy sex life if we aren't comfortable in our own bodies?
- What is compersion and why is it important for sexual pleasure?
- How do givers get more comfortable receiving?
- Is it okay if your partner doesn't want to go down on you? What can you do?
- Why is there an oral sex taboo in the Black community?
- Why isn't oral sex seen as "real sex"?
Our Guests
Goody Howard
Sexologist and educator focused on pleasure, body positivity, and inclusive sexual wellness.
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Casey Tanner, MA, LCPC
Queer sex therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, specializing in LGBTQ+ affirming sexual wellness.
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