How does non-monogamy work and is it right for me?

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How does non-monogamy work and is it right for me?

Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory

Ethical non-monogamy is everywhere in conversation, but what does it actually look like in practice? I am joined by Jo Encarnacion (@gofitjo) and writer Gabrielle Smith for a grounded, nuanced conversation about polyamory, the relationship escalator, navigating jealousy, and how the values of ENM can enrich any relationship structure — even monogamous ones. And yes, they talk about how to have this conversation with your kids.

Today's Questions

  • Defining ethical non-monogamy — what is it? Are polyamory and ENM the same thing? What does "ethical" mean?
  • How do you explore non-monogamy and know if it's right for you?
  • What is the relationship escalator and how do you hop off if it's not working for you?
  • How do you open up conversations about jealousy and other fears with your partner(s)?
  • What values and practices of ethical non-monogamy can benefit monogamous relationships?
  • Sex-positive parenting — how do you talk about ENM with your kids?

Our Guests

Jo Encarnacion
Jo Encarnacion (@gofitjo)
Wellness advocate and ethical non-monogamy educator helping people explore relationship structures that truly serve them.
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Gabrielle Smith
Gabrielle Smith
Writer and educator covering ethical non-monogamy, sex, and relationships.
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