Navigating Ethical Non-Monogamy and Polyamory
Ethical non-monogamy is everywhere in conversation, but what does it actually look like in practice? I am joined by Jo Encarnacion (@gofitjo) and writer Gabrielle Smith for a grounded, nuanced conversation about polyamory, the relationship escalator, navigating jealousy, and how the values of ENM can enrich any relationship structure — even monogamous ones. And yes, they talk about how to have this conversation with your kids.
Today's Questions
- Defining ethical non-monogamy — what is it? Are polyamory and ENM the same thing? What does "ethical" mean?
- How do you explore non-monogamy and know if it's right for you?
- What is the relationship escalator and how do you hop off if it's not working for you?
- How do you open up conversations about jealousy and other fears with your partner(s)?
- What values and practices of ethical non-monogamy can benefit monogamous relationships?
- Sex-positive parenting — how do you talk about ENM with your kids?
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