How do I reconcile my faith and sexuality?

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How do I reconcile my faith and sexuality?

Sexual Shame, Purity Culture, Abortion, and Pleasure

If you grew up in the church, or any religious context, you probably also grew up with a lot of shame (because same). I sit down with Irma from Dirty South Sex Ed and Erica Smith, M.Ed., creator of the Purity Culture Dropout™ Program, to explore the lasting impact of abstinence-based education, what abortion access actually looks like for teens, and whether faith and sex-positivity can truly coexist. We get into all of it.

Today's Questions

  • What is the impact of growing up in the church and receiving abstinence-based education or shame-based messaging?
  • How can people, particularly those raised as women, become more comfortable with masturbation?
  • How can we explore pleasure in a healthy, shame-free way?
  • How can we access sex-positive, trauma-informed care?
  • Why as a society are we so obsessed with abortion?
  • What options exist for teens who want access to birth control, emergency contraception, and/or abortion care?
  • What are crisis pregnancy centers and why should we avoid them?
  • Can religion and sex-positivity co-exist? How can you embrace both?
  • How can parents raise sex-positive kids, especially if they are also religious?

Our Guests

Irma of Dirty South Sex Ed
Irma, CSE
Certified sex educator and founder of Dirty South Sex Ed, dedicated to shame-free, culturally responsive sexual health education.
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Erica Smith creator of Purity Culture Dropout Program
Erica Smith, M.Ed.
Creator of the Purity Culture Dropout™ Program, helping survivors of purity culture heal and reclaim their sexuality.
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